Sunday, July 17, 2011

June 2011

I don’t know what is going on with posting videos to the blog but I have had a lot of trouble with that. I never could get the videos I wanted to post for last month to upload. I will try those again and see what I have for this month.


Well, another month has passed so quickly! We were busy again in June. We met with our social worker for the last time regarding our adoption. We had to do a 6 month post placement report and another one a 1 year. She will write up our report and send it to me to send off with some pictures. I can’t believe that July will mark us as having Emma Kate as part of our family for a year! WOW! The year has gone by fast! We will talk more about that in the July 2011 post. Let’s get back to June.

 We went to a cousin’s wedding in Gainesville, Florida. We try to do family reunions every couple of years on my dad’s side of the family but that probably won’t happen until next year so we really wanted to go to the wedding and enjoy all the festivities! It was a great way to see everyone and introduce them to Emma Kate. Emma Kate really enjoyed being around everyone! She also danced a little bit at the wedding. She likes to dance and will usually start “dancing” by putting her arms up in the air and twisting her body and she will shake her butt or sway her body to the music. So cute to see!

While we were in Gainesville for the wedding, Calvin’s mom became ill and was put in ICU in Pensacola. She had a stroke and brain bleed. She was not doing well. He went to be with his family while Emma Kate and I stayed in Gainesville. Calvin’s mom seemed fairly stable so he came back home and by that time we were home too. Calvin got a call a few days later that his mother had passed away. We headed back to Alabama to tend to everything and have the funeral. Wow, as much as we prepare ourselves for those phone calls, they always catch us off guard and leave us feeling raw with emotion. We are so sad she is no longer here with us but we are also thankful that she is not suffering. A fear of hers was to be put in the nursing home. She will never have to worry about that! Nell was a wonderful, sweet, loving woman that loved her children and family! She will be truly missed! Here is a picture of her with Emma Kate.
November 11, 1933 - June 17, 2011
Nell, you are missed by us all!


 We had a family vacation planned this month and had a great time. We flew into Buffalo, New York. After we ate some lunch (local favorite- Beef on Weck) we drove to Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada. It was so pretty there. We spent one night there but really enjoyed the time there. The next day after touring around Niagara Falls, we drove to Toronto. We spent 2 nights there. We stayed in the hotel that is attached to the Toronto Blue Jays stadium. We opted to stay in one of the rooms that overlooked the baseball field (the Blue Jays were on the road at this time). It was really neat to have that view. They had a big event there the night before so they spent the time while we were there; tearing down the stage, etc and then putting the baseball field back together for the next game. It was fascinating to see all of that happen over 3 days. We did lots of walking around Toronto and we also went to the Toronto Zoo. From Toronto, we drove to Montreal. We spent 2 nights in Montreal. Most of you probably know that French is the preferred language in Montreal and we don’t know any French. We went to breakfast at Tim Horton’s (a favorite place of ours that is in Canada) our first full day. We had some difficulty ordering our food and asking for extra items like sweetner and cream for my coffee. We thought that we would have a difficult time there but the rest of the time we did fine not speaking the language. Most people also know English.  We mostly just got out, walked around the city and really enjoyed it. From Montreal, we drove to Syracuse, New York. We spent one night there. We went to see Syracuse University the next day and then headed back to Buffalo. On the way to Buffalo, we stopped in Rochester for lunch. We ate lunch at this place called Dinosaur BBQ. It was really good. The place was kind of a biker bar but family friendly plus the BBQ was wonderful! Once in Buffalo, we just had a nice dinner and got ready for our flight out the next day. Emma Kate is turning out to be a great little traveler! She did well taking her naps and going to bed at night. We just had to be aware of our timing and make sure that she had a nap each day….or else! The days where there were at least several hours of driving, we would set up our portable DVD player and she would watch Kai-Lan, a cartoon about a Chinese girl and her animal friends. Our flight to Buffalo went really well. Emma Kate was very well behaved and there were lots of other children near us. We did our best to keep her busy. The flight home was a bit more stressful. They kept the “fasten seatbelt” sign on for the majority of the flight which meant I was supposed to keep Emma Kate in my lap….yeah, right! She was a bit fussy and very wiggly and there were no other children near us. At one point, I took her to the bathroom with me just to get up and move around. When I looked at myself in the mirror, my face and neck was all red….I thought I was having an allergic reaction to something but then figured out I was just stressed out!  

Here are some pictures from our trip!
Niagara Falls- view from the Canadian side
Emma Kate and Calvin
In front of the falls
Around Niagara Falls- we rode in the skywheel
View from our hotel- Emma Kate hamming it up!
Another view from our hotel- the border- NY and Canada
Up in the skywheel
Toronto Blue Jays Stadium
View from our room- overlooking the baseball field
The field is almost put back together
Emma Kate wanting to take her nap in the big bed
Church in Montreal
Syracuse University
Dinosaur BBQ in Rochester, NY

Well, that is it for June! Sorry it took me so long. Hopefully I will be better about our July post. Hope everyone is doing great and staying cool this summer! It is incredibly hot here in Atlanta.

Signing off until next month!
Kathy

Monday, July 11, 2011

Gotcha Day Anniversary....1 year ago today

One year ago today......we were flying from Beijing to Nanchang in preparation for meeting our precious little girl. Emma Kate was placed in our arms and we have never looked back. Can't imagine what life would be like without her! She is a joy to us. I was thinking aobut what she was able to do when we met her. She could not sit up by herself for long, she was very quiet (very little babbling), wanted to eat any thing other than congee (a Chinese dish like rice soup), loved to watch people, was a good sleeper, did not have much of a smile on her face. Today, we have a happy, active (walking and running all over), still a good eater, babbling so much more and saying some words now, still loves to watch people but also wants to interact with them and is still a good sleeper. She gives us kisses and hugs and loves to be snuggled.

Congrats to Brian, Stephanie and Sylvie on their special day too! Thanks to Douglas, Erica and Katie for being there with us to celebrate that special day. The only thing that would make this day more perfect is if I was not sick. We have had a stomach bug going around in our house and it is my turn. Yuck.

Here are two family pictures....the first one from Gotcha Day and the other from our beach trip in May. The difference is amazing to me! We love you Emma Kate!!!

Gotcha Day July 11, 2010

Family photo from May 2011

Thanks to everyone who supported us through this journey. It was a long journey which ended with such a sweet ending.

I know I have not done a post for June 2011 yet. I am working on it and hope to post it soon. Love to you all! Calvin, Kathy and Emma Kate (and Cooper too).

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

May 2011

Well, another month has passed and we have been busy bees around here! Emma Kate continues to grow and grow. At the first of the month, Emma Kate and I went to Auburn to hang out with some of our cousins, Caroline and Anne. We try to get together around 4 times a year to spend the weekend together. We saw lots of other relatives too which was lots of fun. We took Emma’s picture in front of the trees at Toomer’s Corner. For those of you who don’t know, some idiot Alabama fan decided it would be a good idea to pour poison on the roots of these trees. One tree seems to be more damaged than the other but it is possible that both trees will eventually die which is so sad.

Emma Kate and I got home in time to have our first Mother’s Day together. We had a nice day together.  Emma Kate gave me a beautiful necklace that says “My Mother, My Friend” on it. Emma Kate also made me a little gift at Mother’s Day Out. It was a handpainted small flower pot with a paper flower. So sweet! I remember last year on Mother’s Day. We knew that our referral was about to come. I was so hoping that we would get it in time for Mother’s Day but we did not. It came to us the next week. It was such a relief to know that it was coming.

Emma Kate is talking more and more. She attempts to repeat what we say more often now. She can say cracker and go, go, go. I have included a video below of her saying “cracker”.

We went on a little vacation this month with our friends Brian, Stephanie and their little girl Sylvie. You may remember that we traveled to China with them and our girls are from the same orphanage. We went to Seaside Beach in Florida. Brian and Stephanie go there every year but this is the first time for us. We had such a great time! We played on the beach, swam in the pool, shopped and ate yummy food and enjoyed visiting with each other! The beaches there are just beautiful; the sand is white and so soft and the water is clear blue. Emma Kate and Sylvie were afraid of the waves as they crashed on the shore but loved playing in the sand with all their toys. It was so fun seeing the girls together! I have also included a video of the girls together and a video of Emma Kate playing in her own little tide pool.

I turned another year older this month….ugh! I was spoiled on my special day…. I was taken out to eat breakfast and lunch that day. It was a nice day to be together as a family.

At Emma Kate’s last day of Mother’s Day Out this month, there was no crying when I left which is a first. I usually stay for a few minutes when we get there. This day, she was clinging to me and not leaving my side. One of the teachers pulled out a big box of play food and dishes and put it on the floor. Emma Kate seemed excited about that and jumped out of my lap and started pulling things out of the box to play with. I decided that would be a good time to leave and told her goodbye and that I would be back soon. She waved bye to me and then blew kisses to me through the window. Wow! I was so excited that I was not leaving her when she was crying! Such a big girl! She will start going to Mother’s Day Out 2 times a week starting in June. She seems to really enjoy it so I hope that transition goes well.

Update: I have been trying to upload the videos for several days now but am unable to do it for some reason. I will try again next week.

Eating ice cream


Playing at home...boots on and playing with dishes

Mother's Day gifts for mommy!

Future Auburn Tiger in the making???


In front of trees at Toomer's Corner in Auburn



Got her gear ready to play!
Smiling for the camera


Love this picture....look at the tummy!

Beautiful Sylvie on the beach!


So cute!

The whole crew!

Sunset